Never pretend to a love which you do not actually feel, for love is not ours to command.

I feel like I have been thinking about love for so long now... but I guess it is just one of those things that you can't 'not think' about.
I found the above quote on a webpage and thought it was very true - I do not think that you can or should pretend to love someone/ something that you do not truly love, because it can hurt people. I don't think that love is, or ever has been, something that a person can control. One cannot decide to love someone else - love decides itself.
On the other hand, love does sometimes fade, and sometimes, it is not love that we actually feel, it is something else... like admiration or sometimes even gratitude.
Why is love so confusing? And why does love fade? Is it because it was not really love to begin with? Or were we not working hard enough?
Love sucks, don't you think?
Until next time...